Being deep because...well, inspiration strikes randomly; which I find to be a very exciting and frustrating at the same thing.
I've been working a pretty good amount lately. 35 (give or take) hours a week, add another 5 or so that I 'donate' and possibly another hour for the time on my day off I spend going over there for whatever the reason that might be. So, I'm full time and working my ass off the same or more hours that your average American adult puts in. ...While earning less than 1/4 of what 'they' make. No, I'm not about to bitch about wages because although I'm exhausted mentally and physically after a 6-10 hour shift I don't do the same kind of work my mother does every Monday through Thursday. The pay scale has, generally speaking, been predetermined in America for every type of job.
Mmkay, now for something that has everything and nothing to do with work. My time off. On a good week I'll get two days of rest, which aren't normally together, but rather split by a single useless low-paying day. Obviously I find that a little annoying, and I hate the fact that some aspect of Steak n Shake is ALWAYS on my mind. So where is the freedom? What am I earning $13 or so an hour for? I spend money left and right, on pizza, Netflix movie subscriptions, stuff for Elijah (my car), my Xbox, new TVs, my animals, ect. I virtually save nothing, and when I do my life falls apart and every damn thing goes wrong so I spend it on multiple little emergencies of mine. Where the hell is my future?
I'm not going to stick with Steak n Shake for five more years and be a manager or some shit. I'm definitely not going off to some serious college, and if I do some small certification stuff and spend a couple thousand on that will it even move me forward at all toward a future career? Right now I'm too fucking scared to send a check to any kind type of school because from where I'm at now I can't predict the future in the slightest. I can't picture myself doing anything, at all. Maybe its because I just don't know about the photography career field enough to know what type of job I'll end up getting; or because I can't see myself being a full time photographer at all. Whatever the situation is I'm scared. Scared I'll get stuck making an insufficient amount of money to ever initiate some kind of lift off, or that I'll do some bum job that I'll hate. How am I supposed to know? This freedom has become a frightening thing. EVERYTHING is up to me, EVERYTHING is dependent on what I choose. I just hope that I throw myself out on a limb sometime soon and invest some money into my future, so by the time I'm 20 I'll have some idea of what I'll be doing now that I'm all grown up and maybe I'll be closer to finding a place to live and pay my car off. I don't know, but just maybe something exciting will happen soon and I'll know what to do and where to go.
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I understand your concern. I knew from an early point in high school I needed to know where my future was. I am very "where am I going" oriented. I always want to know what my next decision will be and how it will affect me later on. This is why I went to culinary school of Baking and Pastry arts.
It is something that I enjoy. I can see myself in a full time position doing something in the industry. I know you spoke of not knowing whether you'll be happy as a full time photographer, or not. I think you need to do what I did. I took some time for myself, and figured out what it was I liked to do. Save some money, though you seem to spend it left and right, and take a vacation.
You and I both know that you work hard and a vacation is only necessary. During this break, do what it is that you like to do. If photography is your thing go around the take pictures of everything: nature, buildings, people, city life, still life, whatever you can get your hands on. Then ask yourself: Did I enjoy it? Was it fun? Can I see myself doing this on a daily basis in exchange for money.
For me, doing the baking thing was almost a no brainer. After I realized I liked to bake, and didn't mind working the necessary hours, I could easily see myself selling my baked goods for money.
I think that is where you should be concerned. How can you take what you like to do into a profitable job?
Don't be afraid to go to school either. Even if it is just to get the academic classes out of the way. Before you sell your soul to an arts school, take some time now and go to ACC and get your academic classed out of the way. Don't be like everybody else though, and drop out a month or two into it. Stick with it. No matter what you decide to do, you'll most likely need these classes. Now it will benefit you to keep you busy and buy you time to decide on a major, and in the long run it is cheaper.
I hope what I said is clear. It's kinda late right now, and I just finished writing an essay. Nonetheless, the main idea here was: Do what you want to do and take some time for yourself.
- Keith <3
Way to completely voice my fears. I can't see myself DOING anything in the future and it's scary as hell. I definitely wish I was like Keith, that I just would figure out real easy.
Sad face.
krrrrrystal.
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